Penis Girth

The age-old question, "Does size matter?" has been debated for eons. Both men and women alike are interested to know what really gives. Men are obsessed with the size of their penis and many have found ways to make their member larger. That's why the penis enlargement industry is booming offering everything -- from cream, pills, patches, weights, traction devices, and even surgery. The media and the overly-hyped stories of 'well-endowed' men have undoubtedly contributed to the already convoluted subject of penis size.

Men with larger organs are regarded to be more manly and better in bed. Thus, "Bigger is better" has become a popular adage. Furthermore, this insight seems to emanate from male vanity rather than the pleasure that your penis can provide. A small penis is equated to diminished masculinity, virility, and at times, also associated to impotency.

But, in fact, most researches have revealed that the average penis size is not the 12" advertised by porn stars. Besides, these porn stars are not representative of the average man. They may very well be more well-endowed than you (this is their luck) or have undergone some enlargement procedure. The average penis size is actually between 5.5 to 6.4 inches in erect length and 4.7 to 5.2 inches in girth.

But countless women have agreed that the length of the penis has not much to do with sexual pleasure; but width may indeed matter in the long run. It has to do with stimulating their G-spot which is supposed to be located about two inches inside the upper wall of the vagina.

The nerves that are stimulated during sexual intercourse are located near the entrance of the vagina and the anus. Penis girth is significant here since a meatier penis can stretch out the vaginal or anal walls that stimulate the nerves. This creates friction and sensation that most women love during a sexual experience.

Anyway, preference is still based on the individual woman. Because of the points highlighted above, many women have a penchant for larger dicks. But remember, it's not only a big penis women crave. They seek passion, intimacy and emotional connection. Remember to show her your love by giving her flowers, a sensual massage, or candles with rose petals. Assault her senses with romantic gestures and you'll be well rewarded. If you have a girthy penis, you'll be rewarded even more

Experiment on different sexual positions and incorporate toys in your love-making. Identify her key erogenous zones (i.e., her clitoris) and come up with techniques to stimulate her -- with your tongue, vibrator, fingers, etc.

Penis size is important but it's also the combination of skill, passion and romance. After all, sex is as much fun as you make it.

What to Do if Your Penis is 9 or More Inches

The obvious answer would be: sit back and bask in your glory. You may think that you have won the genetic race and are better off than most other men. You may think that the world of sex is yours for the taking. However, such is not always the case.

Many women will recoil in shock from the sight of such an impressive penis. Sure, it looks big and the very herald of untold pleasures. But no woman, especially not one who has never had the pleasure of such an encounter, can fully repress the suspicion that your size may be too big for her. Most women will be afraid that insertion would hurt and that subsequent sex would be a painful ride instead of a pleasure cruise. Anal sex will be completely out of the question, whereas oral sex will be an awkward proposition at best.

So what’s left? First and foremost: don’t jump her. At the moment when your penis springs into view, your partner is most likely both aroused and afraid, not to mention more than a bit curious about how it would feel (heck, it’s not everyday she comes upon such a fine specimen). So take it slowly. Don’t amplify her sense that things may take a wrong turn. Above all, don’t skip foreplay! I don’t know how you feel about foreplay, but in this case it’s your best friend. Foreplay will help you push her past fear and into pleasure.

Second: don’t slam it all in at once. This will surely hurt, even if the last time she was tight was five years and a couple of boyfriends ago. Jokes aside, take your time and slide only your head in at first. Keep going slowly until her body adjusts to your size and she can take your entire size in. Once you’re in don’t start slamming full tilt like there’s no tomorrow. She would certainly not appreciate it.

How to cope with a penis that's very big

Having a large penis might seem like every man's dream, but there is large and there is too large! Anything over 8 inches is far too large for most women to handle. Such a penis can be more of a curse than a gift. In most cases, women find sex with a large penis painful, mainly because it can knock against their cervix (the top of the vagina) and can even cause bleeding. So guys, if you're well hung, remember to treat your lady's privates with a little more respect.

Regardless of size you should be able to enter a girl comfortably if you take your time. Foreplay is the key, focus on careful stimulation of the Epicenter, the female degenerated prostate. You can use this multiple-step approach by Dr. Newman K. Lin of the Lin Institute, a research center for multiple, sexual orgasm.

The first step is to massage on the labia majors, groins, pubis and clitoral base to relax the muscle around the vagina and prepare it for penetration. If you find that this is insufficient then apply a light Finger Pliers massage to the G-spot and Clitoral shaft and turn it around 11 and 1 o'clock position, to stimulate the vaginal muscle relaxation and tenting expansion.

The actual penetration is divided into 3 steps: start with shallow penetration in the first 1/3 of the vagina at the same time lightly stroking the G-spot and kissing each other for about 3 minutes. Follow it up with moderate penetration to test the vaginal flexibility and relaxation with a light stroke, and if there is no pain deep, time to do deep penetration.

Finally, use Screwing Technique and Kiss the cervix with the glans penis to avoid thrusting hard. Screwing is vital in love coupling for massaging vagina and penis in the Chinese sexual bible "SU-NUI Ching." There are two screwing technique which depends on who the driver is. If the male is the driver he should be allowed to move freely, so the female will lie down, and the male can lie on her, stand up or knee down to do the job. On the other hand if the female is the driver, she will sit on his legs without constraint rotate her upper body right and left periodically or use her hip to make a circulation motion.

This technique will stimulate the brain to increase the testosterone level and the burning in the vaginal tissues will relax the muscle that will tent up and expand the vagina for taking heavy strokes or pumping

Screwing with a C.A.T position, will trigger a powerful orgasm for women. Screwing can also be used to wake up the sexual energy, increase the vagina lubrication and strengthen an erection. If a couple screw each other for 10 to 30 minutes every morning will surely bring them to a humping mode and will provide enough morning exercises for the loving couples as well.

Interview with a woman about why she likes a big penis

Those exposed to western culture have been conditioned to believe the mindset 'the bigger the better' about all sorts of things, from cars to houses to portions in restaurants. This way of thinking extends to penile size as well. Big men are most likely to have slightly bigger penises, although, contrary to popular belief, there is no correlation between the size of a man's nose or feet and the size of his organ.

Does it really make any difference when you're having sex? For Samantha X, it matters - a lot. "Sure it matters - I've had some massive members in my time, and I really enjoyed them! I find that the bigger the penis, the greater the feeling." In fact, a woman who doesn't prefer a bigger-than-average penis is more of an exception rather than the norm. While men's penis come in various colors, shapes and sizes, a study conducted by the Alfred C. Kinsey Institute for Sex Research has shown that the average penis size is anywhere from 5-7 inches. Size does not matter - to a certain extent - in order bestow a physical sensation upon a woman. "I once slept with a guy who had a stub for a cock and I couldn't feel anything. I ended up going into the bathroom and satisfying myself - a situation I don't care to repeat."

The heart of the matter is that most women don't like very small penises, whatever is done with them. A small, slender penis is not very rewarding in itself and many women complain that they 'can't feel anything,' especially if their vagina has previously been stretched by having children. That does not necessarily mean that length-challenged men cannot be good lovers, but that penis size alone probably is not going to do it.

Research has confirmed that what most women want is a bigger-than-average penis, but what is really important is width rather than length. They say the ideal penis is one which is thick enough to stretch the woman's vaginal opening and which can be felt inside their body, each time they have sex. "I would rather sleep with a guy who has a thick member than someone with a thin, reedy schlong that hits my cervix every time he penetrates me."

Similarly, most of the 200 women interviewed representing all ages (over 18), sizes, ethnicities, and sexual habits opted for girth (or the circumference) over length, as they claimed to enjoy the feeling of a thick penis rubbing against their vaginal walls rather than having an unusually long penis poking against their insides.

When it comes to racial preferences, Samantha had this to say: "I've noticed that African-Americans are really well-endowed as compared to other nationalities. They also seem to be much more confident in bed knowing that they have the right size package." One's ethnic group does produce significant anatomical differences among males. For instance, black men are indeed bigger than Caucasian men, but only by half an inch or so, on average, while Asian men are about half an inch smaller on average.

All these information just show that women are turned on and satisfied by a large, thick, and powerful penis, not to mention they are visually stimulating as well. Women such as Samantha know how to appreciate well-endowed men, or even those just think they are, since they are usually much more sexually confident about their sack skills.